Some Things Are Better Left Unsaid

Wednesday, July 30, 2008

tired... tired... tired~ =(

i want to sleep!!!

*fang gong-ing in a few more minutes*

Tuesday, July 29, 2008

gt a link from chantrice.. some kind of xin li ce yan i tink..

http://www.personality.ws/

my results... =)

Defender of Truth and Rights

"Social Facilitators"



"Social Facilitators" have an uncanny ability to approach others and make friends with ease. This is because of their ability to see others' needs and their willingness to be of service. They often remember names even after just one meeting.

Because of these attributes, they make wonderful hosts and hostesses. If given the choice, they enjoy being in charge of social functions. They don't mind delegating to get the job done and pay great attention to detail. All of these things are done while striving for unity of the group. If disharmony occurs, they are likely to blame themselves and take the situation personally. "Social Facilitators" can be easily wounded.

Nurturing and upholding established tradition is important to this group. Civic groups, schools, and religious organizations often benefit from their organizational skills. Often their service comes in the form of taking charge of meetings in a friendly, yet down to business manner. They possess excellent communication skills and can be comfortable behind the microphone or in front of an audience orchestrating just about any meeting.

Dependability and reliability is their creed. "Social Facilitators" generally see things as right or wrong, black or white. This causes great stress at times when trying to make decisions or resolving conflicts with others especially those closest to them. They struggle between their need to be true to their inner values while being sensitive to other people's feelings. This can become a very interesting battle within the mind of these people. The struggle of figuring out the right thing to do can cause a delay in action, thus further frustrating the situation because of their natural need to get problems resolved quickly to allow them to move onto the next task at hand. Ultimately, prudence prevails, and they end up doing what they feel is right while trying to help others feel good about the decision.

Personal Secrets

Strengths
Are usually very thorough in their work.
Have a knack of being in touch with the real world and sensitive to needs of others.
Have great ability to carry out instructions.
Very dependable employees & co-workers.
Very hospitable Make very loyal friends and spouses.
Well organized and good team players.

Weaknesses
Can be critical of those closest to them.
Feelings may be easily hurt.
May be short sighted, unable to see the big picture.
Needs proof before moving into action.
Reluctant to change.
Vulnerable to despair and gloom.


Suitable Jobs
account executive
alcohol-drug counselor
assistant dentist dietitian
athletic coach bilingual
attendant funeral
banker
counselor customer
director home health aid
economics teacher
ed. teacher child care
elementary teacher
ed. teacher child care
elementary teacher
family physician flight
human resources
insurance agent
LPN
massage therapist
medical assistant
medical secretary
merchandise planner
minister
merchandise planner
minister
nurse
nutritionist
office manager
optician
optometrist
paralegal personal
provider counselor credit
services rep dental



Relationship Secrets

Motivated By
Belonging.
Cooperation.
Reliability.
Security.
Stability.
The need to serve others.

Relationship Hints
Be dependable. Make every effort possible to follow through with commitments made to this type of person.
Outwardly recognize their efforts and give plenty of positive feedback. Express appreciation for their ability and willingness to help.
Respect this person's point of view - listen with empathy.

Communication Hints
Be logical and follow a step-by-step process in communication. Be prepared to provide practical, real-life applications of ideas.
Present a clear-cut outline of what is expected. Avoid being vague or using generalities.
Present ideas/thoughts in a friendly, cooperative manner while demonstrating the benefits for both the group and individual.



Management Secrets

How To Approach
Allow them to earn a SIZABLE AND STEADY MONTHLY INCOME.
They desire group membership - belonging.
They must sense security and structure.
Today, not tomorrow, is the important day.

Individualized Reward
A plaque or trophy displayed publicly.
Birthday card, cake and recognition Letter of recognition (personally delivered).
Restaurant certificate - for two people.

Want From Work
They are careful to do the "right" thing - they want an environment that supports that choice.
They want a cooperative group with which to work.
They want stability in the workplace: - assignment types - associates
They want to be of service and be recognized for the service.
They want to belong.
They want to function in the "here and now".

Criteria Of Perfect Job
Rewards are public, obvious and consistent.
The "status quo" is maintained with very little change from day to day.
There are very well defined regulations and requirements.
There is an absolute chain of command.
They want to be given responsibility and the opportunity to show that they are dependable, reliable and predictable.


*you tell me whether its true abt me! hahax.. :p*

hmm.. ytd pics.. only two.. hahax.. :p

*wid sam*


*wid jun.. forever no smile one =.= " *

28072008

sb recording.. waited veh long.. was alr half asleep when the other bands performing.. and i was already sleeping when c star was performing.. den stefy they all woke me up.. hahax.. :p

yishijie performing le.. yeah! and sam's singing was really nice la.. =D and really glad they made it to the next round.. heex.. =D happy~!!

lucify were the special guests for sb this time.. shiru gerene and xiao evon came to see them de.. hahax..long time no see xiao evon le..ya lorx.. hmm.. lucify they all performed the zhong ji yi ban song.. i duno wats the title le.. hahax..ya..

after results show.. went recept.. as usual wait them come out lorx..

as i say.. today was sbza de tuan yuan day.. hahax.. me shiru xiao evon gerene mel and sofia.. hahax..we sbza started taking pics here and there la.. so fun.. =D and duno wat happen to shiru la.. take pics here and there and wif everyone.. hahax.. fun!

lucify came out lorx.. den shiru they all as usual showed sbza's fast-ness in taking pic.. lol! all have to go le.. den they took pic veh fast la.. and they left le.. shiru they all also left.. no more fun.. =(

hmm.. waited for ysj come out.. all machiam tired dao~ den til abt 2 plus den they came out.. keep finding sam only.. hahax.. did talk to him today.. but i super hate that guy la.. keep talking no link stuffs lorx.. pekcek! did went find jun when he was around.. hahax.. after tat sam walking down le..heng only me and jm walked down wif him lo.. den they left le.. yeaps.. when we left jun and kenn were still there la.. but sofia no find le.. all wanna go home le..

reached hm abt 3 plus.. tired.. Zzzz..

pics uploaded soon bahx.. yeah! =)

Sunday, July 27, 2008

26072008

hk cafe wif stefy wendy presh hj and joyce.. ya.. had black pepper chicken chop wif nice.. quite nice~ the shao mai-s too.. =) next tym shall try the others.. hehex.. =p saw one of the statues (mutouren) there den kena xia dao.. -.-

saw two more mu tou rens standing there la.. -.-" haiyo.. today see so many mu tou ren-s...

walked to cine... went to this 'crepes and cream' shop at the basement.. the drink quite nice.. ya.. first tym drank tat.. hahax.. sounds a lil mountain turtle..:p

saw kailin and stephanie and jiamei came down from the escalator.. went find them.. then they went find food then me went back find stefy they all... oh.. ya.. thanks stephanie for the oreo cookie donut.. its nice! =)

after drank finish the drink we went find kailin they all and talk talk a while den left.. ya...

hmm.. think really dun dare la... shall see hw again.. =(

*kind of a sad day today after stephanie let me see things =((*

Saturday, July 26, 2008

25072008

meet stefy jm wendy and presh after work.. ate at the jap food restaurant at the CINE basement there.. duno wats that called.. ya..

today gg for a movie..yeah.. hmm.. its like been a long time ever since i went for a movie... not to mention 'the dark knight' la which was watched tgt wif the ysj fc ppls.. hahax..

we watched 'PROM NIGHT'.. the 930pm show... quite a nice show actually cos i din fall asleep during the show.. hahax.. but tat show is not scary at all la... i expected more horror-ness.. hahahax.. :p sounds abit bian tai here.. lol! but horror movies to me = comedies.. cos i laugh at those frightening parts.. LOL~! :p


after the show... stayed at cine a while den all decided to go home in the end... =)

*please get the facts right before assuming can? thanks arh! =)*

Friday, July 25, 2008

24072008

town-ed.. heard they got go down..in the end really got... ya lorx.. abit rushy la.. hmm..

was talking wif kailin while waiting... funny emoticons stuffs la.. tongues going da jie alr la.. LOL~!!! funny can... hahax..

they came out quite late.. ya.. jun came out first.. did take pic wif him la.. den he rushing off le.... took pic wif sam also la.. den after tat left.. ya..

pics not yet uploaded.. shall update again bahx.. a short entry here though.. heex.. :p

Thursday, July 24, 2008

hope my colleague from another dept will be fine.. hope she heard wrongly abt her illness.. cos it seems so sudden la.. haix *praying hard*

weird thinking.. weird feeling.. haix.. duno la.. maybe its just me who is thinking too much.. =(

Wednesday, July 23, 2008

hmm.. finally he updated his blog.. and at least we noe he din MIA.. hahax.. :p

okay.. i am BORED lah!!! =(

shall blog abt ytd.. a short one.. lazy.. :p

22072008

walked from city hall den to bugis den to far east..... just to find my shoes.. i buying another one la... think the one i wearing now is going to give way soon.. hahax.. :p

finally bought it at fareast.. waited for jm to fang gong... den after tat walk around...saw kunio there.. we looked at him for 5 seconds den i noe it was him la.. LOL!

talk talk a while... den stoned dere til 10 plus went home..

Tuesday, July 22, 2008

pics of 19072008... ysj gathering and nuh bday celebration... =) shall only post up some pics which was alr sent to me.. =p

*wid sam*

*wid kenn*

*grp pic*

i have only these pics.. still waiting for chant and sofia to send me the rest.. hurhur.. :p

21072008

sb ytd.. hmm.. results: synpathy was out~! yayness! its like finally la.. duh! hahaha.. ysj de jun kunio and sam also went watch the results show.. ya.. hmm.. during the show alr sians.. after show more sians.. pekcek la.. dun like dun like!! argh! din see them anywhr after that.. duno they came out from whr.. ya lorx.. haix.. suans liaox =(

went hm and cont niam-ing on the fone wif stefy.. but duno why halfway no sound.. den i sleep liaox.. hahax.. slept at abt 2 plus in the morning..

Sunday, July 20, 2008

decided to post wat happen today la.. just in case i forgot.. hahax.. but no pics.. :p

19072008

ysj gathering wif the fc ppl today.. hmm.. abit weird la.. cos first tym gathering wif fc ppl and the guys.. ya lorx.. went for movie 'the dark knight - batman'.. the show quite okay bahx.. except that i fell asleep in the middle of the show.. but overall quite okay bahx.. it was fun la.. and long time no talk wif sofia they all.. happy can catch up wif them a little bit. =)

helped nuh celebrate bday.. and we hanged around outside mrt station la.. take pics and talking lorx.. hmm.. first tym i take pic wif nuh also..but i nv talked to him before.. ya lorx

thanks wendy they all help me take pic wif/of sam... =) din talk to him real much.. but its okay~! =D

den abt 11 plus all catching last train lo.. lucky still gt.. hahax..:p

took mrt to hougang wif mel and sofia.. ate at mac.. and when we go in we saw INK.. tat was really veh qiao cos we were still only talking when i see them familiar.. and its them.. hahax..

left abt 2am.. tired.. but a fun gathering too! =)

hmm.. pics will be uploaded when it have been sent to me.. ya.. =)

有時覺得很難做人.. 真的不知道怎麼辦才好=(

Saturday, July 19, 2008

was talking wif stefy just nw la.. and she and huijin can be so funny to think of something like tat.. LOL! =.="

Watch Sam - Comedy
Watch Kenn - Horror
Watch Kunio - Action
Watch Jun - HK film
Watch Nuh - Romance

Sam - Get Smart
Kenn - The Mummy (he is the mummy)
Kunio - The Matrix
Jun - Wu Jian Dao
Nuh - Wedding Daze

hmm.. ysj gathering later~ yeah.. hahax.. first tym with the fc ppl.. abit weird.. hahax.. but i tink me stefy presh huijin and wendy will gonna have loads of fun and laughter.. LOL! :p

gg to sleep soon.. will update again.. =D

Friday, July 18, 2008

17072008

went amk.. ate le den went bugis.. i went to get my stuffs.. heex.. finally done.. yeah.. =) bought liang cha for him den stefy so funny la.. go buy doughnuts for 'him'.. lOL! =.="

and as usual.. went there lo.. went find jm there.. talk a while only cos her bosses were there so cant stay inside there for long..

went find him .. passed him the stuffs.. haha.. we so funny la.. no wan let ppl see us.. then keep hiding.. lol! in the end went down pass him the thing and ask him help the doughnuts to 'him' den we ran off liaox.. hahax.. :p

walked around la.. den abt 9 plus stefy had to go home le.. we went his shop again.. without 'him' noticing'.. talked there den left..

reached home abt 10 plus lo..

hmm... he so funny la.. actually believed tat the herbal tea 20 bucks? =.=" but heng he drank it all.. nv waste the herbal tea.. hurhurx.. :p
but he actually ate the doughnuts himself la.. when we asked him pass to 'him' =.=" and he tot we were joking when we asked him to do tat.. veh 'clever'.. =.=" but hope he get well soon~ ya.. =)

glad he liked the thing i gave him~ =D

pics~!! =D





okay.. enough of blogging.. hahax.. i am so tired lorx.. wan sleep~



*sleeping.. zzz*


Thursday, July 17, 2008

was playing wif frenster den i just click on my horoscope thingy.. hmm..

Libra (Sep 23 - Oct 22)

The Bottom Line

Avoid people who say one thing and do another -- especially if they are powerful.

In Detail

Watch out for people who say one thing and then do another today -- no matter how powerful they are. You don't have to call them out on their hypocrisy, but you do have to avoid sharing any of your secrets with them! Working with other people could be a challenge, generally, today. Your goals are not in complete alignment with theirs, and compromises might not be possible. Make sure you are clear with what you say. You don't want to give anyone an excuse for not following your instructions

16072008

today meet stefy den went town.. hahax.. we went to find stefy's 'fans' lorx.. hahahax.. first tym hear idol go find fans.. instead of the other way round.. LOL! :p

hmm.. today he looks really normal.. not the usual one.. but although he is dressed like tat.. i still can recognise him.. wear until like that also no use.. camouflage still the same.. hahax.. :p

reached town.. went find the 'fans'.. kena say by 'fans' i dao lorx.. no reply sms.. hmm.. but phone no batt la. no sms can be replied.. sorry la.. :p

den now i also duno why i became jing ji ren.. haha.. benlai from 'idol' promoted to jing ji ren.. not bad.. LOL! :p (sometimes pai mia only~=.=")

hmm.. today was fun.. me the jing ji ren saw my 'overseas idol' also.. happie happie... LOL! tink jm shud noe who i am talking abt.. hahax.. and thanks stefy for helping pass message to him when he is only in front of us.. haha.. must understand my zui ba do da jie at tyms.. LOL! :p

shall stop here now.. my entry veh luan now.. LOL! those who understand jiu understand lo.. those who duno.. dun ask.. i lazy tell story.. wahaha.. :p

i like talking to him la.. so funny can.. LOL! *the cute one* =D

Tuesday, July 15, 2008

happie birthday wenhai~! =D

all the best in everything you are doing ya.. =)

14072008

went for the recording.. ya.. er zuo ju was out.. my guess was correct..

sms-ed him..and he replied.. hahax.. din see him for a long time le.. ya lorx.. =(

juz b performance still as good.. hahax. hafiz~~ long time no see le.. ya lo.. but they left before the results show ended.. din get to take pic wif him.. =(

someone's face gt the kiam pa look la... DUN LIKE!

hmm.. nth much to update le.. tats all.. bye! :p

Monday, July 14, 2008

finally back in singapore =) and back to work =(.. hahax..

malaysia trip was fun~! =D

hmm.. shall recap abt the whole trip.. hehex.. if i still remember them.. hahax.. :p

day one - 10072008

woke up really early.. presh's dad was driving us into malaysia.. reached yewtee at abt 7am.. hmm.. long journey.. slept in the car.. Zzzzz.. reached there abt 2 in the afternoon.. settled in this hotel called holiday villa.. think is in subang.. ya.. quite comfy there.. heex.. den her parents went back singapore.. we stayed aabt 4 den we went find her fren at the college there.. ate the banmian there,, haha.. diff from singapore.. nice.. did some shopping.. hehex.. but din buy anything.. but the things there quite cheap la.. went back hotel at nite..

day two - 11072008

had our breakfast den checked out of the hotel.. presh's fren neko drove us to another hotel at klang or seremban i forgot..think is called the klang resort.. ya.. quite nice there too.. think i had nasi lemak for lunch.. hmm.. quite nice.. but the portions are really big.. quite full after i ate that.. went back the shopping mall walk a while den they went meet their fren le.. den ate supper after that.. den back to hotel

day 3 - 12072008

today had jap food for lunch.. i was quite full.. so din finish all.. the food was nice too la.. yeaps... den waited for neko to come... today there was an event at shah alam.. a japanese festival called bon odori.. first tym i went for this kind of event.. quite fun.. the girls were wearing jap traditional costumes.. forgot wats tat called.. kids were wearing that too.. veh cute.. hahax.. then they started dancing the traditional dances and some of them were following the dances.. ya.. something funny happened.. cos presh neko and another gal who was with me were wearing the costumes.. den 7 grps of ppl tot they were japanese.. and they asked them in jap whether they can take pic wif them.. and they had to repeat each time that they are not japanese.. and i tink i can be their jing ji ren and baomu lo.. cos keep helping them wif their costumes.. and helping them wif stuffs.. ya.. LOL! overall it was fun~! =D den back to hotel abt 11 plus cos that place was quite far from the hotel.. neko had to rush home cos it was alr late.. and she went on 170 the maximum la.. it was real fast..-.-" first tym took a really fast car.. -.- headed to bed soon.. tired~

day 4 - 13072008

last day in malaysia.. checked out early.. cos need to get train tic back to spore.. but there was no tics alr lor.. -.-" in the end took bus to JB.. den need to get something back for my mum.. did stop at someplace.. gt some stuffs.. den reached JB.. went city square.. and i finally gt myself a bag.. but i now think its real big.. hahax. machiam wan to li jia chu zou dat kind of bag.. hahax :p walked to the customs and we were back to spore at abt 3 or 4 plus i tink.. reached hm abt 6.. yea..

overall was fun.. yeah
.. i wanna go again~~ and buy many many la.. hahaha.. :p

Wednesday, July 9, 2008

08072008

3 hours talking on the same topic and the same person.. madness! =.="

but it was quite funny though.. LOL!! :p

Tuesday, July 8, 2008

07072008



went for sb recording... today gt yishijie performing..yeah.. =) their performance veh good today.. judges gave quite good comments.. and sam veh cute.. haha.. :p



FIR was the special guest for today.. but they only appeared at results show.. they sang only 'FLY AWAY' but the atmosphere quite high la.. hahax.. long time nv see them le.. ya lorx..



results announced.. veh jing zhang can.. =.= but yay! YSJ was the first grp to get in to next round.. =D



waited for them come out.. they abt 1 plus came out.. this time they stayed longer as there were more fans waiting for them.. ya.. took many many pics wif him le.. haha.. only post one.. cos others CMI for me.. :p



den kailin wanna ask him take pic but no dare.. den i help her ask lorx... den she went over.. but sam keep making fun of her la.. hai me xt and kailin keep laughing.. but finally... she took one decent one.. LOL!!

i took pic wif jun and kunio also.. hahax.. kunio shi cute de.. his hair kena sprayed red by kenn and the synpathy ppl la.. poor him.. hahax.. :p

wanna asked sam to sign the a2 board de.. but he cant think of anything to write. ya.. walked down wif him.. xt and kailin pei me go down wif him lo.. den xt keep pai-ing la.. irritating! =.="

in the end he signed the board wif a long message too! =D thanks sam! duno whether he will be reading this or nt la.. but thanks alot=)

went home after tat.. =D

Sunday, July 6, 2008

haven been updating my blog due to laziness.. hahax.. :p

hmm.. and i am still lazy so i will just post a short one.. =)

05072008

went for COSFEST at downtown east wid stefy wendy hj and preshie.. yeps.. more ppl cosplaying this time.. the last tym i went suntec.. there wasnt so many ppl.. ya lorx..

walked around.. den we had subway for dinner.. quite nice.. heex.. ya.. we saw chenliang wif his frens too.. ya..

abt 9 plus bahx.. forgot wat tym le.. we left there.. den preshie and hj went wif their frens den me stefy and wendy walked back to interchange.. saw shinya there lo.. hahax..

bus-ed home..

slept quite early today.. =)

Friday, July 4, 2008

03072008

haha.. seen quite a number of sb peeps these few days.. just ytd and today..

ytd jiu saw screamm (the whole grp) and nuh in town...

today saw xiaolong and xiang at bugis.. 2 times somemore.. hahax.. chant and stefanie were there too.. but stefanie no fate.. :x

walked a while.. den went home.. =)

Tuesday, July 1, 2008

hmm.. ytd while waiting.. tot of something funny..

stefy and wendy just did it out of boredom.. LOL~!!! for ur entertainment only.. :p

三月的某一天﹐ 有伍個人走進异世界森林,帖在大樹上的浦公英,看起來很恐怖.大風吹把有毒的花吹來.走啊走,經過一間DREAMFACTORY看到雜叭琅兔子二做劇.到了晚上,翼旋風吹來很多肥皂的星星.因為很害怕,兔子SCREAMM "C! Star!" 真可憐 (SYNPATHY)

BORING BORING BORING!!! =(

wanna have something to do la.. if not i will fall asleep de (which i alr had done =.=)

just came to blog a word-ful entry bah.. cos no pics sent to me yet lo.. hurhur

30062008

sb recording..went for tat cos i won the tics lo.. hmm... maybe too tired le.. fell asleep when some of the grps were performing.. forgot which grp le. too tired.. ya lorx...

results : yxf eliminated.. hmm.. actually abit shocked la.. cos tot they will be in for next rounds..

after that waited a while.. den slowly one by one.. the grps came out..ya lorx..

talked talked and paizhao-ed lorx..cos nothing to do..hahax.. :p

den abt 2 le den went home.. =)